Bobby Griffith was an all-American boy and he was gay. Faced with an irresolvable conflict-for both his family and his religion taught him that being gay.. . Editorial Reviews. From Library Journal. Mary Griffith prayed that her gay son Bobby would be Recently I've read a book called 'Prayers for Bobby' where a Christian mother tells her story, based on her son's extensive diary chronicling the. Leroy Aarons is available in various formats such as PDF, DOC and ePUB which you It is based on the critically acclaimed book, Prayers for Bobby: A Mother's.
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Hardcover Verified download. At the age of 20 he back-flipped off a freeway overpass, timing his leap so his body would be struck and killed by an oncoming truck. Today Mrs Griffith has a very different view and has dedicated her life to helping other parents so they will not lose their children as she did. Paperback Verified download. Wonderful downloading experience.
The book was in amazing condition and it was delivered quickly and I didn't feel overcharged. This is one SAD story.
So, I warn you, don't read this if you want a happy ending. Eventually, it is happy for some, but it is one of those true stories that really makes one cry, depressed, and every other sad word you can think of.
On the other hand, it is such an important story. It doesn't matter if you're Christian, Catholic, Mormon, or not religious; this is a universal problem that the gay community has been dealing with.
Bobby and his mother's story is moving, beautiful, and tragic, but it's so important even in the year If you have the chance, watch the Lifetime movie with Sigourney Weaver.
It's not the same, because it is more about the story than what specifics happened. But you'll cry, smile, laugh, and many more things from both this book and that movie!
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Otherwise it's fantastic and I most likely will redownload. One person found this helpful. For anyone out there who saw the Lifetime movie based on this book: For while the movie gave us the basic conflict between the Fundamentalist mother and the gay son and the ultimate tragedy that resulted from it, a good deal of the family's story was left out. It was, after all, not only a movie, but made for TV, necessitating room for commercial breaks.
Still I found it a powerful experience, so I rushed to get a copy of the book. Bobby Griffith was born in and committed suicide in at the age of twenty, unable to overcome his self-loathing at being gay. The story hit especially close to home for me because I was born the same year as Bobby, and I experienced much of what he went through as a "different" child and adolescent.
I felt a good deal of what Bobby felt as a young gay man; to see how easily such a thing can turn tragic is chilling and I found myself weeping about his too-short life, both in the film and book versions.
Considering that most of the family's back-story was cut from the teleplay due to time constraints, Weaver and Kelley along with an excellent supporting cast managed to get the events and emotions across most effectively, though the film's biggest weakness is its lack of an explanation for Mary's rigid and controlling nature, particularly as it relates to her religious beliefs.
The book tells the whole story. Mary and her husband were both the products of difficult childhoods, but together they made a good marriage, to the point that the rest of the family always chose their home for family get-togethers. But it is through the story of her childhood that we learn where Mary's rather peculiar approach to religion came from: As a result, Mary emerges into adulthood as something of a mess of contradictions.
She chain-smokes, and she also sleeps with her husband Bob for a considerable period of time before their marriage, which in the late Fifties was NOT something "nice girls" did. And oddly enough, as religious as she is, attending church every Sunday and dragging the kids to Sunday school until they all but the youngest eventually come on their own, Mary is far less controlling where her husband is concerned.
A decent, hard-working man, Bob is not particularly religious, and makes it clear to Mary that he is not interested in her proselytizing. And Mary, for once, goes along; she nags him about it every once in a blue moon, but ultimately she does not pressure him to do anything he is unwilling to do.
But when the issue of homosexuality comes up, Mary is terrified. Unable to live with his secret, Bobby confides in his brother Ed, a mere fourteen months his senior and with whom he is very close.
But Ed, still just a kid himself, panics when Bobby takes an overdose of aspirin and blurts the story out to Mary. Mary immediately goes on the warpath, waging a campaign to "heal" Bobby of his homosexuality with a bizarre combination of prayer, nagging, and posting Bible verses all over the house where the poor kid cannot fail to see them.
Mary's "holy war" takes over the entire household; her other children are too busy wrestling with their own religious ideas to be of much use, and Bob, to put it bluntly, being non-religious, has no frame of reference from which to broach the subject, so he does nothing.
Thus begins a war between the mother and the son which, perhaps inevitably, ends with Bobby's suicide. The remainder of the book is a tale of redemption.
Crushed by grief and guilt, painfully aware of the role she played in her son's demise, Mary goes on a pilgrimage to find answers that she can live with. In fact, Mary's story is one of true redemption. She can't bring back her lost son, but she can do her damndest to make sure no one else loses their children the way she lost hers. She becomes a tireless worker and fierce fighter for the protection of LGBT kids everywhere.
At age 20, Bobby Griffith jumped to his death from a freeway bridge in Portland, Oregon. Mary was transformed by her loss and eventually renounced the rigid religious beliefs that had kept her from fully accepting Bobby during his lifetime. The Griffiths' story resonated with Aarons' own transformation as an openly gay journalist and activist.
After Bobby's death, his mother became an iconic activist for the national association PFLAG , urging parents to understand and accept their children's homosexuality. After leaving daily journalism in , Aarons began to explore the Griffiths' stories in depth. From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia. Dewey Decimal. Promise me you'll keep trying. Bobby gave up on love; I hope you won't. You are always in my thoughts. Jeanette[ edit ] They should love the son no matter what the sin.
Hey, that's good, I'm gonna start my own Bible! Dialogue[ edit ] Bobby: I'm sorry, I'm not the perfect little Bobby you always wanted, but I can't keep apologizing for it mom! Accept me as I am or forget it!
Mary: I will not have a gay son. Bobby: Then mom, you don't have a son. Mary: Fine. Robert: So we're really going to San Francisco? Mary: I think we have to, I don't think it's a choice. Bobby: I think there's something wrong with me. Ed: That's for sure. Bobby: What d'you think mom would do if she found out one of us was a psychopath? Ed: What do you mean, "if"? Bobby: You know what she's always saying, that our whole family will be together in the afterlife?
Well, what if one of us is a sinner? Ed: Hey, did you sleep with Michelle?